My close friend just told me she and her boyfriend is "taking a break". Poor girl, she is so forlorn and confused. What does "taking a break" exactly means? I told her to sort out her feelings and then decide on what she wants. Communication is of course important too but sometimes it is just so difficult to speak your mind. You fear that you might hurt the other person or you just cant seem to find the right words to say. Hopefully Alley Bar will cheer her up. Feel for her. She just looks so lost and fragile.
Today I bumped into a few friends. Met one of my used to be bestie longtime buddy. She is still as crazy as ever. She came back from Aussie. Also met my old tuition teacher. I miss him. Have you ever felt how sometimes you wanna reach out to someone. For a hug? Or even to comfort? But somehow you feel too shy or maybe just something is stopping you? I also met Mel. She hugged me like she havent seen me in years....thats nice. I like Mel. She is sucha a lovely person. Really. Almost perfect. Although I dont really know her very well but sometimes you dont need to know someone very well to tell their colours. Know what I mean? Sometimes if you feel at ease with a new person and somehow you just know that they are nice. Or the other way round, if for some reason you dont feel good around that person then maybe its best just not to be around them. BUT I could be wrong. I mean I'm just talking crap I guess. I dont know.
Read a friend's blog earlier. He was talking about how people misinterpret the stuff he does. Like helping a friend, people will think otherwise. Is there a motive involved etc....well society will always be society with people talking about people and gossips around. Another of my friend, sigh I feel for him. I seriously thought that as we grow older perhaps we will THINK before we SPEAK. But for some people that is not the case. A quiet guy he is, but yet gossips are heard behind his back. I seriously cannot stand tattletale freaks. Why cause harm to others when others doesnt cause harm to you. It proves that those people are really so bored in life that they have to create something out of nothing to have some freejoy entertainment in their lives. Do you even know the person well enough to JUDGE!? Why why why!? Why do people like to tell tales about another!? Does it mean that if I am a quiet person who minds my own business that I am "not a nice girl....etc..." some shit fuck shit fuck. Period. Quit petty gossips and false rumours. Honestly. Childish. BUT unless you know for real the person is some rapist or some sick pyscho are some hot-blooded person, then just talk to your friends about it like "hey better becareful of that person....I read in the news he is a rapist etc..." Aiya I dont know la. Crap. I am sure you are smart enough to know what you just read. Think about it. Stop it, OR at least TRY to stop.
As I was enjoying my ride home, the full moon looked so peaceful. Like a silver pillow against the velvet blue backdrop. Perfect. But in reality, the moon is not that round and it has craters on it. Holes. Holes which signifies imperfection. Imperfect like us. I know we are not perfect. But isnt that better? So we can all LEARN to try to be a better person. A more perfect person than before. Of course perfection is unreachable. But we can try. Learn from the past, learn from others, learn from yourself. I mean afterall we are our own worst critic.
quote of the moment "Misfortune shows those who are not really friends."
Aristotle, Eudemian EthicsGreek critic, philosopher, physicist, & zoologist (384 BC - 322 BC)
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My brain
To us aliens are scary, to them we are the scary ones
You found me :)
I think I laugh twice as loudly as you
I love scones and muffins
I love metaphysical stuffs
I love to travel
I love my job (at times)
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